Orchard Bees
Mar. 19th, 2026 04:02 pm
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Reposting since it's been a bit and I have a couple updates.
Mar. 19th, 2026 11:07 amAge group: mid-to-late 30s -- 36 specifically.
Country: USA
Subscription/Access Policy: 18+ only. No Harry Potter fans. No antis. No Chappell Roan stans (I see how y'all are treating my man and I don't like it.) For a more in-depth 'about me', follow this link.
Main Fandoms: Culture Club (the greatest band of the '80s! I write fic for them and sometimes cross-post deep dives from my website on them.)
Other Fandoms: Linkin Park, WWE, Smoky Mountain Wrestling
Fannish Interests: Fanfiction mostly, and doing deep dives on my many OCs.
OTPs and Ships: Culture Club: Boy George/Jon Moss, Roy Hay/Mikey Craig; Linkin Park: Bennoda [Chester Bennington/Mike Shinoda]; Wrestling: Hartbreak (Bret Hart/Shawn Michaels), Shawnter (Shawn Michaels/Hunter Hearst-Helmsley), Candy (Cody Rhodes/Randy Orton); and then I have a lot of ships in my fandoms involving OCs.
Favourite Movies: The Room (lol), Pretty in Pink, Borat, Major League, man there's so many and I can't think of all of them.
TV Shows: I actually don't watch TV.
Books: Broken Harts: The Life and Death of Owen Hart by Martha Hart
Music: I listen to a lot of '80s. My faves are Culture Club (and yes, that means I like Boy George's solo work too), a-ha, Depeche Mode, Yazoo, Information Society, New Order, The Cure, A Flock of Seagulls, Real Life, Johnny Hates Jazz, Mr. Mister, Oingo Boingo. Then outside of '80s music I like Massive Ego, $uicideboy$, Linkin Park, and Fort Minor.
Games: Sonic the Hedgehog (1, 2, 3), Sonic & Knuckles, Sonic 3D Blast, Pokemon, The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim, GTA series, Hitman series, WWE series, Tomb Raider (original games series), Crash Bandicoot 1 & 2, Legacy of Kain series
Comics/Anime/Misc: Not really into much comics or anime, but my fave anime is Death Note.
22 Wide-Eyed Cats Who Clearly Know Something We Don’t
Mar. 19th, 2026 07:00 amThere's a certain look cats get when they've clearly seen something… and decided not to share. These wide-eyed felines seem to be in on a secret the rest of us aren't, caught somewhere between curiosity, judgment, and mild existential dread. Whether they're staring into the void or directly into your soul, one thing is certain: they know something we don't, and they're not about to explain it.
Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal - Love
Mar. 19th, 2026 11:20 am
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Fortunately the comic cuts off at the waist.
Today's News:
“what’s it all for / you better live now / before the grim reaper come knocking on your door”
Mar. 19th, 2026 08:52 amPeople. They just invented Brinecore. As an April Fools joke.
And it RULES.
---L.
Subject quote from Let’s Go Crazy, Prince and the Revolution.
Even More Chill Writing Music
Mar. 19th, 2026 11:40 amhttps://nocmar.bandcamp.com/album/moonlit-waters
This is very chill and ambient dungeon synth that's largely unremarkable save for how relaxing it is. Still, I will always prefer human-made lofi dungeon beats over the madness-inducing AI slop that has infested YouTube.
My favorite track is "7. Ancient Birchwood."
let’s talk about times when you said the exact wrong thing at work
Mar. 19th, 2026 02:59 pmA reader writes:
I had an awkward moment the other day with a client and it made me think that others have probably made similar mistakes, and it could be fun to hear from everyone.
I’m a lawyer and working with a client preparing to testify about their innocence after being in jail for decades. I was in the prison working with him earlier this week, and he was doing really great work, and as feedback I kept telling him he was “killing it!” As in, “You’re killing it!” And, “Great job killing it!” Alison, he’s unfairly in jail for murder and has been his whole adult life. I know that, and yet for the life of me Could. Not. Stop. Saying. It.
In my subsequent reflection and shame, I realized others must have similar stories of just saying the absolute wrong thing to the wrong person at work. If you’re ever thinking of a call for stories, I bet these would be good!
By all means, let’s have at it in the comment section!
The post let’s talk about times when you said the exact wrong thing at work appeared first on Ask a Manager.
performance options
Mar. 19th, 2026 10:17 amThe obvious one is to go back to handbells, especially since our church's handbell group hasn't had enough participants to perform for a couple of years now. If I'm not rehearsing with the symphony on Monday nights, I'm free to rejoin the metro handbell group that I've gigged with in the past. They will definitely want me back if I'm available.
There's also another high level choir that is holding open auditions over the next few weeks. I've heard them perform once before and they're very good. So I'm going to see if they're interested in me. But I don't know yet what their rehearsal schedule is if they are.
Meanwhile, Robby has expressed tentative interest in joining the symphony chorus himself, since the last time he did any large scale singing was in college, and it was the Mozart.
Plant: Photos: Original: Umbrella Plant
Mar. 19th, 2026 02:59 pmFandom: Original
Rating: G
Length: 5 photos and some text
Summary: Like its owners, our umbrella plant is unconventional
( Umbrella Plant )
marocain
Mar. 19th, 2026 07:26 amKnown in full as crepe marocain. From French (crêpe) marocain, Moroccan (crepe), from Maroc, Morocco, from Medieval Latin Marrochium, Marrakech/Marrakesh.
---L.
21 Purrecious Memes of Pawrents Pawsitively Pawsessed with Their Cat Children
Mar. 19th, 2026 03:00 pmOne minute it's just a cat, the next minute they're your whole purrsonality
Being a cat pawrent means accepting that your entire personality now revolves around a small, furry creature who may or may not acknowledge you. You take photos constantly, even when they're doing absolutely nothing, because somehow every angle feels important. Your camera roll fills up fast, and deleting any of them feels illegal.
Plans start getting adjusted too. You leave a little earlier to make sure they're fed, or rush home because you "just want to check on them," even though you know they've been asleep the whole time. Somehow, sitting next to your cat while they do nothing becomes a top-tier activity. It counts as quality time, no questions asked.
You also start talking about them like everyone else is just as invested. Stories, updates, small details about what they did that day. It all feels important. Even the smallest things, like where they decided to sit or how they looked at you for two seconds, become highlights worth sharing.
At some point, you stop questioning it and just lean in. The routine, the photos, the constant updates, it all becomes normal. Your day starts and ends with them in some way, and you wouldn't have it any other way.
26 Sweet Smiling Cat Pics Celebrating the International Day of Happiness
Mar. 19th, 2026 10:00 amYou might not have known that an International Day of Happiness exists, but with this collection of smiling cattos you will be hard pressed to forget it ever again.
Much like us hoomans, heck, far more so than us hoomans, our cat children are not known for expressing their happiness all too often. Sure sometimes they will come up to you with a gentle purr or make some biscuits on your chest, but these are simply learned behaviors that they know appease us hoomans and lead to them getting more food and treats. But to see a cat sitting and smiling, just for the sake of it. Well, that is truly a special occurrence and one that we wish would happen more often. Both in the lives of our cute cat children and in our own.
So to celebrate this year's International Day of Happiness we made this list of smiling cattos to shine light into the hearts of each and every one of you cat loving hoomnans. Now go forth, scroll and smile to your heart's content.
Every cat is obsessed with something, and you never know what it is until it happens.
This is something that we have come to learn not only as cat owners but also as people who write about cats nearly every day. One day, in every cat's life, they will find something. Something that they are obsessed with. It could be an item. It could be an action. It could be that your cat will be obsessed with potatoes. It could be that your cat will be obsessed with turning on the faucet, forcing you to tie it shut. It could be that your cat will be obsessed with sabotaging your showers, forcing you to build her a spot to shower safely.
Life with cats is never boring, but life with a cat past their "obsession finding" moment, that is something that can never be compared to anything. And for this cat, who one day discovered that he is obsessed with the mailman, every day became an adventure. Every day became a waiting game, eagerly awaiting this human who drops things through a slide into the cat's home, to come and bestow the cat with a new thing to sniff and explore.
Hot take: It's much easier to convince someone to love cats than it is to love dogs.
You might think the statement above should be reversed, but we're going to convince you why it's purrfectly right just the way it is. First, let's break down why people may dislike cats versus disliking dogs.
Why would someone dislike cats? Probably because they either never expurrienced the love of a cat, or they've only been around cats that were stressed. There's the off chance that they were attacked by a cat before (scratched, or bitten), but those instances are far rarer than in dogs. The last option that we can think of is that they're allergic, and there's not much you can do about that.
But for dogs, the number of reasons has the pawtential to be much greater. There are lots of stories of dog attacks, especially in young kids who don't know how to properly approach dogs, causing the dog to lash out (even if unintentional), causing an early fear of dogs. Dogs also require a lot of responsibility. You have to commit to taking them out 3x per day, exercising them, playing with them, and going outside whether it's raining, snowing, or as hot as the Sahara desert outside. Most dogs have very loving purrsonalities, but they will also destroy your house if you don't take care of them properly. And finally, the allergy problem similarly applies here.
To turn someone into a "cat person", all you have to do is introduce them to the right cat. To turn someone into a "dog person", you have to convince them to adopt a dog-friendly lifestyle.
Which is why we love our story below so much - it's about a guy who used to "hate cats", until he traveled the world and befriended a bunch of stray cats. They showed him that there was nothing to dislike about them and that they just wanted to be loved like anyone else. See all his fuzzy friends below and more of his explanation by scrolling down!
What We Are Seeking by Cameron Reed
Mar. 19th, 2026 09:05 am
John Maraintha wanted to rebuild his life. Instead, he was marooned on a backwater world in the middle of a first contact crisis.
What We Are Seeking by Cameron Reed
Hi Creature
Mar. 19th, 2026 08:35 am
Source: https://www.deviantart.com/graypillow/art/hi-creature-1310349412
Wake up bear, it's Winter Wrap Up. Because tomorrow Spring is here and meanwhile, your den is about to get flooded. You're welcome!

My brain hurts :(
Mar. 19th, 2026 11:29 pmI forgot how much I loved On the Way to Meet Mom by
Speaking of comics and art, I love reading the wild shit (lol) that
I got reminded about my ADHD diagnosis experience because one of my friends is finally actually considering getting it checked out. I still think the funniest question in the questionnaires my psychologist sent was just point blank "are you in a gang" LMAO